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Weekly Library Haul

Let Them See You Sweat

February 14, 2016 by Rebekah Leave a Comment

 

IMG_8513-2IMG_8514IMG_8507-2IMG_8508IMG_8511-2Last week we took home this gorgeous pop up book called Welcome to the Neighborwood from out library. Seriously, maybe the coolest pop-up book I’ve seen to date.

After the first reading and a little discussion about how these animals all work alongside each other in their “neighborhood” my son declared, “let’s take the wasp out of the book so we can play with it”

welllll, no. We can’t deface property, and mom’s soul dies a little when people tear things out of books. But being an unschooler, I wanted to find a way to “yes” to his desire to play with the wasp while still keeping the book intact.

Enter my suggestion that we make one the next morning.

Saturday morning arrived and we set up shop at the table, with much coffee, ready to craft a 3 dimensional potter wasp.

Turns out this was a great opportunity to let my son watch me do something that I am not very good at, or in unschooling lingo, an area in which I m underdeveloped. So we worked together, but I did do most of it. He watched me mess up, struggle to understand how certain things were supposed to go together, and make a joke about howe when I try to think of things in 3-D I can actually feel my brain hurting.

“are you just joking mom?”

“kind of…but I swear I can feel it growing.”

We sat with that for a minute.

It was a fun activity and a great opportunity to show him that mom also has to tackle things that she doesn’t completely understand or particularly enjoy  in order to achieve a desired end goal. As an unschooling mom, I am often asked, “If your kids don’t have to do things they don’t like, how will they ever learn things like, math, reading, writing? What if they don’t like them?” The Answer? Of course they will learn all of those things when they need them to achieve something they want.

I think John Holt has a great explanation for this when he was asked by a reader, “Without school will they have the opportunity to overcome or do things that they think they don’t want to do?”

“I’m not sure what this question means. If it means, will unschooled children know what it is to have to do difficult and demanding things in order to reach goals they have set for themselves, I would say, yes, life is full of such requirements. But this is not at all the same thing as doing something, and in the case of schooling usually something stupid and boring, simply because someone else tells you you’ll be punished if you don’t. Whether children resist such demands or yield to them, it is bad for them. Struggling with the inherent difficulties of a chosen to inescapable task builds character; merely submitting to superior force destroys it.”

 

This Q & A is from John Holt’s book, Teach Your Own, a great resource is you are interested in, or considering unschooling.

So, the next time you are tackling something that you struggle with, let your kids watch- Because kids just love to see their parents struggle! Just kidding, it’s a great opportunity for them to see that grown-ups have a hard time with things and have to overcome challenges, just like they do.

Happy Sunday!

 

Filed Under: Art & Books, Natural Learner's Library, Play, Uncategorized, Weekly Library Haul Tagged With: art, books, making, unschooling

Library Finds

January 30, 2016 by Rebekah Leave a Comment

We’ve recently re-instated our weekly library trip. it’s been a great way to break up long Winter days and strengthen our ask a question/look it up process. O’s questions have been flowing very freely, as any four year old’s do, and they are becoming much more complex, connected, and interesting!

Before we head to the library we talk about what things we have questions about and/or what things we would like to learn about. We also leave room for fiction stories and talk about what types of stories we may want to explore.

This week he had questions about airplanes and things that fly.

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This book is one of the I Wonder Why series. We really like these. This book goes beyond flight and also talks about how and why other vehicles work as well-why cars have tires, how do air balloons fly, ect. We have also explored crocodiles, reptiles, snakes, and dinosaurs in this series.

A few of our other finds on flight are below.

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We lucked out this week at the dollar a bag book sale. They had a bunch of kids books that would make great additions to our life learning library. (sorry this is sideways!)

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another score from this week’s library came in the form of some info that O shared with me about why he us usually doesn’t enjoy story time at the library or the book store. Not surprisingly h shared he didn’t like story time at these places is because “you have to sit still and I don’t have anything to do with my hands!” totally get it. When we do story time he is free to walk around, do quiet hand activities (lacing, beading, ext.) as long as he is listening and engaged (if he isn’t we simply stop the story and go back to it another time).

On our way out he noticed a boy doing a craft. We helped ourselves to the supplies the library had offered and he loved listening to me read the story (twice) while he created his colorful fish.

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The book is Rainbow Fish Discovers the Deep Sea. His excitement of the combined craft and story has inspired me to incorporate this into our late afternoon book time.

Next week I’ll be sharing how I am creating our new daily rhythm at home, some supply orders (and wish lists!) and more books and activity fun.

Happy learning.

Filed Under: Art & Books, Weekly Library Haul Tagged With: inquiry, library, life learning

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